Silence Is A Skill

 I’ll get right to it… Sometimes shutting up is the best thing you’ll ever do. In this new age where we are constantly being encouraged to speak out, be heard, and express ourselves, we are beginning to blur the lines between knowing when to speak up and when to just sit quietly and watch. I…

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What Love Really Is

As published on http://www.covenantrelationships.org/2014/09/what-love-really-is.html I think love is the most misunderstood term on earth. There are so many definitions of love, one can’t help but wonder which is right. Many people are aware that love is not just about the butterflies in the tummy that soon die off as you get to know Mr. or Miss…

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Know Where You Stand. Define Your Relationship

I’m not asking you to declare intentions of marriage after one week of knowing each other, nor am I asking that you completely eradicate the foundation of friendship in your relationship. I am simply asking that you should be aware of where you stand in a relationship to avoid being caught in a ‘situation-ship’. It…

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Learn To Mind Your Own Business!

My flatmate read this story to me and it cracked me up big time but it also got me thinking about how much we worry about issues that don’t concern us. I don’t know who the author is, so I can’t put a reference to it but I hope you get the point. Here goes……

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Why That Fire-Spitting, Demon-Chasing Christian brother is just NOT RIGHT for you

Whenever christian women get the question “What kind of guy would you like?”, the first response is “he must be christian” and other qualities such as tall, handsome, financially well-to-do and bla bla follow. Of course, if you are asking someone who is scared to show she is interested in something ‘worldly’ like money, you…

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