Men And Women Are Not Equal In Marriage

If you are smart with the hope of building a successful relationship in the nearest future, this is a truth you should let sink into your head. Wait… Of course I wouldn’t say that. No one is holding a gun to my head so you can breathe easy. It is interesting however that this is…

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Here’s What Happens When You Settle For Less

Settling for less especially in relationships is the new cool it seems. If no one has ever advised you to drop your standards and make do with the available, then one of two things are at play 1.) You don’t talk to people or 2.) You have really amazing friends who believe in ‘high heels…

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Have You Put ‘The One’ For You On Hold?

I’d like to think everyone is seeking a partner they can spend forever with. No matter how nonchalant we may feel about serious relationships, there is a part of us deep down that yearns for an uncommon connection with someone else. We all yearn for someone that knows us so well, it makes other people…

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Here’s Why You’ll Keep Choosing the Wrong Partner

The saddest thing I have ever heard anyone say is “we don’t always marry the ones we love”. First time I heard it, I was taken aback. How do you love a person but go ahead to marry someone else? Is it some kind of calculated strategy to keep your heart from bursting from all…

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Our Parents Ruined Us

Surprised? Don’t be. This is a harsh reality we must all face albeit late. But you know what they say… It is better late than never, right? If you’ve been finding yourself in downward spiral relationships where you always tend to get the short end of the stick in spite of your dedication and awesomeness,you…

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Ladies, Just Started Dating? Here are Five Ground Rules For You

I wrote this post for the covenant relationship blog, and I just had to share it here as well with followers of motivation springs. People say there are no rules regarding relationships, hence couples are free to decide what they want in their relationship and how they want their interactions to play out. While that…

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When He Marries Someone Else

Over the weekend, someone reached out to me with the question “how do you get over a boyfriend who suddenly gets married to someone else?” I thought it funny that someone would ask me that. Does it show that I have been through it? If it doesn’t, I’ll tell you now that I have so…

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Dear Nigerian Woman, War Room IS NOT the Solution to Your Marital Problems!

I hate to break it to you but the movie ‘war room’ is not a one-size-fits-all glove. It is not the aspirin to every kind of headache. It is not the panadol to every body pain you feel in your marriage. It’s just not! I have watched war room, and I absolutely loved it, but…

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Excuse me sir, before I submit…

I have a few questions. Scratch that I have a lot of questions about this submission business. Let me put it out there now that I have grown to hate the word submission because of the way it is loosely thrown around. Every Tom, Dick and Harry believe a woman’s submission is the ONLY way…

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The Issue of Husband Scarcity and How Nigerian Women are to Blame

Today was a light-work type of Monday for me. I completed most of my assigned tasks for the day by 2:00pm, so I had more than enough time to read through ALL the facebook posts I came across. Naturally, I tend to read only the important posts because I browse through facebook on a schedule,…

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